Trying To Think Simpler

Being in 2021, an issue that a lot of us face is being judged or the fear of being judged. I firmly believe that this is a also a root cause of multiple other problems like having very low self-esteem. Throughout my life I've never understood why people belittled someone. Now that I've put some thought into this, I've understood that what fuels judgement is a feeling of happiness and accomplishment. You feel like you've done so much better than the person on the other side, you feel happy you are not them because you consider that person to be a failure on some level. Now, let me take you through an example to explain why I think all of this is bogus. Consider an exam, there are two students A and B, A finished the exam in 20 minutes while B took 2 hours. A used 7 pages while B used just 3, A had to write all his answers while B had to draw some. At the end of the day when the papers were graded, both A and B scored well, I believe life is very similar to this, like s...